favorite things, Gifts, shopping

kk’s Favorite Things: 2023 Best Gift List

With all the gift guides out there, here is MY version! Happy shopping!

All photos from retailer websites.

Glasses Organizer

I have banned myself from buying more glasses, but the ones I have could use a home. This stylish organizer will keep all my readers at the ready.

Buy it on Amazon $17

Olive Oil Sprayer

This handy sprayer makes it easy to evenly coat veggies with olive oil for roasting. Would also be great to spritz on a salad!

Buy it on Amazon $19

Cozy Slippers

Expected, but always needed, slippers are the best gift. And these Dearfoams Shearling Fur slippers will keep feet warm all winter. Plus they come in a ton of colors.

Buy them on Amazon Only $43 with Cyber Monday deal

Hydrating Lip Tint

I’ve been into tinted lip balms and glosses lately to add color without weight to my lips. Thrive’s lip tint in Kara will keep lips nourished with a light touch of color.

Thrive $26 with 20% off for Cyber Monday

Super Cute Backpack Cooler

You can keep drinks cold AND look stylish at the same time. Corkcicle Eola Bucket Cooler backpack in Santorini is the perfect size for a few poolside cocktails.

Corkcicle $112 with Black Friday deal

Leather Sling Bag

I love my Lulu crossbody, but sometimes you need something a little fancier for a night out. Check out that gorgeous cognac color.

$70 at Quince

Leather Trimmed Poncho

Oh, how I love ponchos. They are my winter staple with leggings or jeans. This one from Tuckernuck in the slate blue color is the perfect weight when you don’t want a sweater but want all the coziness.

$83 at Tuckernuck

Retro Sneakers

I purchased these and am anxiously awaiting their arrival! Of course I love the orange color, and the added texture is super cool. Has great reviews for comfort too.

$88 at Adidas

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Thanksgiving Recap: Photos, Recipes and Ransom Videos

We made it to Thanksgiving! Since this is our holiday to host, our house was buzzing with excitement and a tiny bit of stress, good smells and anxious dogs.

The day started when I woke up at 5:13am, mentally going through my checklist of what had to be done.

I also had to drag my ass to a 7:30 Power Barre class. But at least I got to see the Thanksgiving sunrise.

And when I got home, Mr. KK didn’t disappoint.

After a smoothie, it was time to prep for the day.

Priorities: juice the oranges for our signature cocktail!

Next up, appetizers: figs with gorgonzola wrapped in prosciutto.

At Mr. KK’s request: the pumpkin shaped pimento cheese ball.

Pre-game cocktail before guests arrive!

Sides are ready for the oven.

Double check my Type A agenda for the day.

Kept this beast on a leash until the guests arrive to minimize the madness and barking. (Didn’t work, but he looks so handsome in front of my oven)

Appetizer time!

Stuffed mushrooms (recipe).

Stuffed figs in all their glory.

Then it was time to get down to business.

Homemade pasta from the chef.

Then onto to main event. Two full turkeys this year, one in the oven and one in the outdoor fryer.

And all the glorious sides! The standouts were the corn casserole (recipe) and the brussels sprouts gratin (recipe). This year Little Mister ate 6 bites of turkey, jello and corn casserole…almost a legitimate meal.

We were way too stuffed for dessert, but we ate it anyway.

Rocco and Bruno hung out with Tony for the day.

Post-dessert activities included the millennials trying to help me get back into my Facebook account on my computer. Which ended in my holding up a pad with a code and recording a ransom video that I sent into Meta.

A little after 10pm the last guest left, and we were all pooped. Especially Bruno.

I hope everything had a lovely Thanksgiving with family and friends.

NOW THE CHRISTMAS SEASON CAN OFFICIALLY START.

shopping

4 Sales to Shop Right Now

Before I jump into Thanksgiving mode I wanted to share some of my favorite retailers that have incredible sales going on right now.

To my family’s dismay, I often purchase items for MYSELF during the Black Friday hoopla, because that’s when all the good sales are…on things that I want. Some of my favorite retailers – even those that rarely ever put anything on sale – are having sales right now. It would be wasteful to not take advantage of this shopping opportunity!

My Favorite Retailers with Big Sales Right Now

  1. Rothy’s. These shoes might as well be on my “do not buy any more” list but I just can’t help myself. Right now, many styles are 30% off, which is a BIG DEAL. If you do not own the Original Slip On Sneaker, you are doing yourself a big disservice!
  2. Boden. You can channel your inner British for 40% off so many styles right now. Boden is my go-to for dresses: they are well made and have an amazing fit. I am eyeing up these culottes.
  3. Mersea. I’ve posted about Mersea before on this blog; the Catalina sweater is a closet staple. Shop now for 25% off site wide.
  4. Seabags. If New England had a signature bag, it would be a Seabag. Made from the recycled sails of ships, these bags are durable and beautiful at the same time. And right now they are 25% off.

Happy shopping!

thanksgiving

Thanksgiving Prep Tips

And by “tips” I mean my crazy prep schedule to get ready for the day before Christmas Decoration, known to many of you as Thanksgiving.

My mental prep for Thanksgiving starts weeks earlier as I lie in bed at 5am scrolling through recipes. Eventually we work up to the week of Thanksgiving and that’s when the magic really happens.

The Thanksgiving Prep Timeline

Weekend before Thanksgiving: Fix the oven.

Inevitably, something will happen to our stove, as it does every year. And like clockwork, our small oven stopped working at the end of last week. So Mr. KK had to quickly order spare parts and hope that 1. those were the parts that would fix what was wrong and 2. if we could actually fix it. Sunday morning, Mr. KK fixed the oven. My hero!

Monday before Thanksgiving: Create the master menu list.

I take out my trusty notebook that I use for all holidays and parties and make the master list of what I’m going to make for Thanksgiving. I then go through each recipe and list the ingredients that I need to purchase under each item. This involves cross-checking the recipes with what I have in the pantry and fridge. I also put all of the recipes in one place (usually in the Notes app on my phone) so I’m ready to go. Meanwhile, Mr. KK makes his to-do list for Thanksgiving. This usually includes things like “remove the screens from the windows” and “vacuum out the fireplaces”. You know, Thanksgiving things.

Tuesday before Thanksgiving: Make the Shopping list.

This is the day I take the Monday list of ingredients and create the actual shopping list that I’m going to use on my trip. This entails organizing all of the ingredients on a fresh piece of paper in the order of how the grocery store is laid out.

Once the list is made, I will then go through my recipes and map out what needs to be made on Thursday, and what prep work and dishes I can put together on Wednesday. Mr. KK prepares the brine for the turkey that we’ll be frying. I also went to BJ’s to pick up a few items that would bankrupt me at the regular grocery store.

Wednesday Before Thanksgiving: Official Prep Begins

7am: enter the grocery store, list in hand. Hopefully find everything that I need to prevent a second trip later on.

On the list to prep on Wednesday:

  • Juice fruit for cocktails (priorities!)
  • Make cranberry sauce
  • Prep side dishes
  • Toast bread for stuffing
  • Have my first “we’re off for four days” cocktail
  • Put the leaves in the table
  • Go to the liquor store (Mr. KK)
  • Manicure (kk)

Thursday: The Big Day

7:30am: attend a cardio barre class. This year, I’m going to kickstart the day by working out so I can feel energized!

And then, the madness begins!

  • Prepping sides
  • Putting sticky notes on every casserole dish with the temperature for the oven and how long it needs to cook
  • Setting alarms on my phone labeled “put turkey in oven” and “turn on turkey fryer” to help keep my sanity throughout the day
  • Have a cocktail
  • Set the table
  • Take out all the platters and serving bowls
  • Mix up the batch cocktail
  • Wipe down the counters
  • Put out the snacks
  • Get ready for the show!

And you already know what Friday morning is….KK up by herself at 5am quietly removing turkeys and pumpkins and acorns from around the house…

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Inflation Has Hit the Christmas Trees

If you’ve gone to a grocery store in the last year, you’ve see the ridiculous rise in costs on just about everything you buy. Items I frequently purchase have gone up $1 or more in the last year. Household staples like mayonnaise, chicken stock and milk have astronomical prices. And don’t even think about produce; since when are strawberries $7 a container? No matter where you go, prices are insane.

This weekend I was at our local produce store and saw a sight that made me almost cry happy tears: the Christmas trees had arrived! This place is usually our first (and only) stop when it’s time for the annual pilgrimage to pick out the Christmas Trees. No need for us to trudge through a field to find a tree and cut it down ourselves (who has time for that?). Instead, we’re able to shop easily (and quickly!) to find the perfect trees. Yes, trees plural. Two. Though I’d get three if we had the room.

I was so excited to see the trees that I took a photo and sent it to Mr. KK. Now, we have already compromised that I must wait until 12:01am on the Friday after Thanksgiving before I can start decorating for Christmas. Perhaps Mr. KK feels our meal may taste differently if he’s surrounded by trees vs turkeys. So the Friday after Thanksgiving is pretty much “Sparkly Friday” over here, because that is when the bins (and bins, and bins) of Christmas decor make their way up from the basement so I could deck the halls all day long. Cue the Christmas channel on Spotify!

In my excitement to send Mr. KK the below photo, I didn’t read the sign next to the trees.

The price for a 6-7 foot frasier fir tree is $89.99.

$90 for a short tree.

No one loves Christmas more than I do, but $90 for a tree that grows naturally outside? Maybe it was my little local shop realizing they could be charging more like the tree farms.

But a quick Google search showed me this: “Data from the National and the American Christmas Tree Associations state the average price of an authentic Christmas tree is between $80 and $100. This reflects about a 10% increase that occurred in the last year, largely due to inflation and drought.”

I looked back in photos from past years of our tree outing, and found a photo from 2021 where Mr. KK is holding up our tree, and the tag on it reads $65. Yep, $25 less only 2 years ago.

“So why don’t you spend $200 on an artificial tree and use it every year it would be so much cheaper?”

Great question! Because I like having a real tree. I love the smell. I love the tradition. I love the slight imperfections. And did I mention that piney smell?

When I was growing up, we had an artificial tree. This was back in the late 70s when artificial trees bore zero resemblance to actual trees. Our tree had a dark green metal pole that snapped into a metal X. Inside the box were about 30 “branches” that you stuck into the holes in the metal pole until you had a plastic-looking, sparse “tree” that would go up in flames if it ever came near fire.

Now you can find artificial trees that are incredibly realistic. I imagine if I had two large boxes with trees in them and we had to find room to store them in the basement, Mr. KK might throw all my Christmas decor on the lawn and light it on fire.

I have designated the first Saturday in December as the day we will get our Christmas trees. It’s early enough that we can enjoy it for weeks, but not too early that it will dry out and drop brown needles before Santa comes.

I will do my homework and price shop real trees before December 2, and find the best place for us to go: a balance of cost and quality of trees. We’ll have our usual discussion on tree shape because Mr. KK likes a taller, tapered tree while I prefer a big, fat, round tree (translation: more lights and ornaments!), so we agree on something between the two. By the evening on Sunday, December 3, our tree will be up, lights on and decorating can commence.

Here’s my time-lapse video of decorating last year – enjoy!

shopping

These Items Are On the “Do Not Buy (Any More) List”

We all have those items. You know the ones, that when you see a new version, color, pattern, you just can’t help yourself. Until you have somehow amassed a collection at home.

I have a few of those items. Mr. KK jokingly tells me that I am no longer to bring them into the house anymore. (At least I think he’s joking).

Here are my contraband items:

Water bottles. We literally have no more cabinet space. I just can’t stop buying water bottles. (Yes, this includes Stanley.)

Cheese boards. Wood. Marble. Square. Round. You name it, we have it. What is it about cheese boards? We could never eat enough cheese to justify the number of boards in our house. But they are just so darn beautiful. (I mean, look at how gorgeous this is!)

Christmas decor (all categories). This should not be a surprise. Come December, there is not one surface not decorated and one hall not decked. Collections include: little houses, red trucks, bottle brush trees, and different textured trees. Oh, and candles.

Cocktail glasses. Talk about no room in the cabinet. But I can’t help myself when I see an etched coupe. My last find was at The Elephant’s Trunk flea market.

Beach/Pool bags. Specifically: Scout bags. The patterns are awesome, they’re easy to clean, and I like showing up at the pool with a stylish bag (or five).

Readers. I have two eyes and at least 10 pairs of glasses. Peepers are my favorite.

Black leggings. I’ve posted about my favorite leggings on this blog already. I can’t love these more, I want a pair for every day of the week.

Did I mention Christmas decor?

Nail polish. This one I can understand, since I don’t even paint my own nails. But I couldn’t help but grab Home By 8 (a deep brown color) and Good As Gold (shimmery gold color) today. Perfect colors for Thanksgiving.

I should probably add that I shouldn’t look at dogs that need to homes either, but it wouldn’t be the first time Mr. KK goes out and comes home to me showing him the dog we were potentially going adopt.

I suppose Mr. KK should be happy I bring home a water bottle and not another puppy!

Target

Dear Target: You Can Do Better

Target, I love you.

You are my happy place, where I can walk around with a coffee and be inspired by your gifts and affordable sweaters and tempting dollar spot.

But if I’m being honest, I’ve been feeling lately that you just don’t love me back. Your shelves are bare. Your product offerings lack variety. And – frankly – your store is a hot mess.

Now, I follow a lot of Instagram accounts about you, and I am so very jelly about how stocked and beautiful these stores are.

What do we have to do to get you up to par? You make shopping very difficult! I can’t get to your shelves, but when I do, they are empty! And while I’m sure this makes Mr. KK very happy, I long for the days when you didn’t look like you were just robbed.

Just look at this gorgeous store:

Look at those stocked shelves! The trees! The little houses!

On my last visit to you, Target, this is what the shopping experience looked like. (For the record, this was not inventory time and the store was legitimately open to the public).

And my favorite: The Dollar Spot:

Not pictured: abandoned half-drunk Starbucks caramel macchiatos littering the shelves, jeans hanging in the bath mat aisle, a take out McDonald’s bag with the Christmas ornaments.

I beg of you, Target, to please clean up your act and be the store I know you can be. And – if it’s not too much to ask – can you please get shopping carts with drink holders?

Hugs,
kk

Kids will be kids

I’m not fat, I’m poofy.

The other day, Little Mister got off the bus in a talkative mood.

Little Mister: “Jessica on the bus asked me if you were having a baby.”

Me: “Really? What did you tell her?”

Note for the audience, I am not having a baby. And my interaction with Jessica includes her staring at me out the bus window every morning when Little Mister gets on.

Little Mister: “I told her I didn’t know if you were.”

This was an interesting answer, on multiple levels.

Me: “You know I’m not having a baby. Why did she ask you that?”

Little Mister: “She said you looked pregnant.”

Alrightythen.

To quote Manny the woolly mammoth from Ice Age: “I’m not fat, I’m poofy!” Or at least my coat was. Or, maybe I just ate too much cheese.

While Jessica’s comment was innocent, it stuck with me.

So I started to focus on my poofy self a bit more. Eating more protein. Joining invigorating classes at the local yoga flow studio. Drinking two Stanleys a day.

Kids are awesome, right?

TV

My Favorite Streaming Shows This Year

Today’s blog post is brought to by: “Why does every show I love have to end?”

I feel like there are two types of couples in the world: the ones who watch every show together and the ones who watch TV in separate rooms.

For the most part, we fall into the first bucket, and that is mainly because we only have 1 TV that’s conducive to Netflix and chill (OMG, I don’t know what possessed me to write that phrase!). So we watch most of our TV together, unless it’s some part 4 of an Action Movie series and then you’ll find me on my phone.

I am also the person who will fall asleep 7 minutes into a show. And because of this, we are the couple who will rewatch the same episode of a show 4 straight nights until we can make it to the end, eyes still open. (this is not as easy as it sounds)

This year, I seemed to have racked up more TV shows alone than alongside Mr. KK. This could be due to me having traveled a bit this year and needing shows for the plane, or due to the fact that I watch shows made for 14 year olds.

Here is what I was streaming this year:

Never Have I Ever. I love this show so much. (Goes without saying, I watched this one alone).

The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel. I can’t say enough great things about this show. It’s smart and funny, and if you didn’t like Tony Shalhoub before this show, you will love him after. (I also watched this one solo)

Firefly Lane. I started this series because I read the books and I felt I owed it to – I don’t know who – to watch the adaptation. I love Sarah Chalke (and am not a Katherine Heigl fan) but I thought they did a good job with the show. It is emotionally draining, but the younger versions of the BFFs will make your heart warm over.

Ted Lasso. Everyone on Planet Earth watched this show, right?

The Last Thing He Told Me. Similar to Firefly Lane, I read the book and wanted to see how the series compared. Am the only person who thinks Jennifer Garner is the nicest human on earth, yet she is hard to watch in a show? Overall, I thought it was pretty good.

The Other Two. OMG this show. It’s weird and laugh-out-loud funny at the same time. Molly Shannon plays a ridiculous mother in the show, and the cast is just so, so good. I think the sister’s boyfriend is my favorite character.

Jack Ryan. Ugh, this show. While I didn’t read the Tom Clancy books, I was intrigued by the premise of the show. Basically Jim Halpert is an analyst for the government who is also really skilled at guns and capturing people on the most wanted list (not bad for a guy with a desk job). Season 1: good. Season 2: The storyline and characters are confusing me, which one is the bad guy? Season 3: I started sleeping after episode 3.

Lincoln Lawyer. Again, I did not read the book*. It was a nice surprise to see Neve Campbell show up on screen, though I have a hard time believing she’s a hard-ass lawyer. Overall, the show is pretty good.

The Longest Third Date. I found this one on my own, and started watching early one morning when I was awake before the sun came up. This documentary basically follows two people who go on a blind date or two, then decide to take a spur of the moment long weekend trip to Costa Rica when COVID hits, and they are trapped there together for months. Remember being cooped up with your family that you love during COVID, now imagine doing it in a faraway place with a practical stranger.

And Just Like That. (aka: Sex and The City Reboot). I don’t know why I watched it, I just did. It could have been my loyalty to the original series, that I enjoyed so much. This time around the characters basically talk about how old they are, and viewers wonder how they afford to still live on their apartments and dress in couture. It was a train wreck; it was not good, but I couldn’t stop watching.

XO, Kitty. Next!

The Summer I Turned Pretty. We’re back again with a show that I watched alone. If you’ve ever spent summers in your teenage years at a beach, this show will strike a cord. It’s sweet and sad and full of first love hopefulness. (And yes, I read the books).

Somebody Somewhere. I found this show by accident, and I’m so happy I did. I loved this show. The writing is so good, the characters are flawed and fantastic. Try this show!

No Hard Feelings. This is a new release on Netflix with Jennifer Lawrence and it was not at all what we imagined it would be, but I will admit we were laughing out loud at some parts. It’s out there – in a good way – and a different look at Katniss for sure.

The Mick. Watched this one alone too. Misfit sister visits rich sister, FBI agents storm the mansion, misfit sister is left in charge of the rich kids. Shenanigans ensue. Mostly funny, a little over the top at times.

Old Dads. If you like Bill Burr, you’ll like this movie. And being an old mom, I can relate.

Love At First Sight. This movie was unexpected and sweet, and I highly recommend if you like rom-coms.

That’s my list. There were others, but these are the ones I remember most. Not all of them are ending, but I imagine that’s where they are headed since I enjoy them so much.

*Is it just me, or is every show now based on a book? Are there no original show or movie ideas any more?

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Holiday Cocktails Sampling, With Recipes

Now that it’s November, I am in full-on holiday mode. And while Christmas is my most favorite time of the year, I have to give a little holiday love to Thanksgiving, especially since we host everyone on turkey day.

Every holiday needs a festive cocktail. This weekend, we put several recipes to the test to determine which cocktails would be the stars of the gathering for Thanksgiving and Christmas Eve. And you get a front row seat.

First up, the Brown Sugar Cranberry Bourbon Cocktail. This festive cocktail showed up in my Instagram feed from @cheesegal. She had me at sugared cranberries.

INGREDIENTS:
3 ounces bourbon
2 ounces 100% cranberry juice (not cran cocktail)
1 ounce fresh lemon juice
3/4 ounce rosemary cranberry brown sugar simple syrup

DIRECTIONS:
First, make the simple syrup by bringing equal parts brown sugar and water to a quick boil until sugar dissolves. Turn off the heat, and throw in a few sprigs of fresh rosemary and cranberries. Let steep for at least 20 min.

She didn’t give exact measurements for the simple syrup so here’s what we used:

100g brown sugar
100g water
30g rosemary whole
150g fresh cranberries

Rim your cocktail glass with some of the simple syrup and dip into brown sugar, then add a festive ice cube*. Pour cranberry juice, bourbon, lemon juice and simple syrup into a cocktail shaker full of ice, and shake well. Strain + pour into prepared glass and garnish with rosemary + some frosted cranberries.

*We did not make festive ice cubes for taste testing but likely will do something for the real thing.

Ours was not as brightly colored as hers was, but the flavor was delicious.

Verdict: Definitely in the running.

Next up: the Spiced Cranberry Sparkler from @cocktails.

Ingredients

1.5 oz bourbon
1 oz spiced honey syrup
Juice of 1/2 an orange
2 oz cranberry juice
2-3 dashes of orange bitters
3-4 oz Prosecco (we used club soda)
Ice
Garnish:
Dehydrated orange slice
Star anise
Rosemary
Cinnamon sugar rim (we skipped this for sampling)

Spiced Honey Syrup:

300 g honey
100 g water
Cinnamon stick
Ground nutmeg
Pumpkin pie spice
Ground cloves

Directions

Put all ingredients for spiced honey syrup in a small pan over heat. Still until all ingredients have melded and honey and water are fully combined. Remove from heat.

In a shaker with ice (she stirred in a pitcher but we were in a shaking mood), mix bourbon, syrup, orange juice, cranberry juice, bitters and shake. Strain into a rocks glass over ice and top with club soda (or prosecco, but we thought that would make the drink too sweet) and garnish.

Woah, this ones goes down easy. It’s the perfect mix of warmth and spice with a bubbly kick at the end.

Verdict: Perfect for Thanksgiving

Next up: Fall Old Fashioned. This recipe is from @thirsywhale_

Ingredients

1.5 oz Rye or Bourbon
½ oz Aged Rum
½ oz Pumpkin Syrup
4 dashes Aromatic Bitters
2 dashes Orange Bitters
Orange Peel 

Pumpkin Syrup
1 can pumpkin pie
2 cups brown sugar
1 cup water
Pumpkin pie spice to taste (you may want more or none at all, up to you). Heat on stove and stir until incorporated, then fine strain.

Directions

Still all ingredients (except orange peel) in a cocktail pitcher with ice until blended and chilled. Strain over a giant ice cube and garnish with an orange peel.

Verdict: this one was a little too potent for me, but the guys really liked it. The pumpkin syrup, however, smelled divine and would be delicious over vanilla ice cream.

Our taste test was a success! The winners are:

Cheers!